专题03 人际关系-2023年高考 英语书面表达热点话题考前押题必背

专题03人际关系

目 录

1. 词汇积累
2. 高频短语
3. 经典句型
4. 范文背诵10篇

范文1……………………………………………………团队合作

范文2……………………………………………………道歉信

范文3……………………………………………………感谢信

范文4 ……………………………………………………建议信

范文5 …………………………………………………...如何择友

范文6……………………………………………………如何与父母相处

范文7 …………………………………………………...如何成为好的倾听者

范文8……………………………………………………如何解决冲突

范文9……………………………………………………感谢信

范文10…………………………………………………..祝贺信

专题03 人际关系

词汇积累

1. acquaintance熟人

2.admiration敬佩

3. candidate候选人

4. communicate交流

5. face to face面对面

6. contact联系

7. relationship关系

8. interact互动

9.privacy隐私

10.mutual相互的

高频短语

1. learn from each other 互相学习

2. promote the friendship 增进友谊

3. improve the relationship改善关系

4. show love and concern for sb. 爱护和关心某人

5. with the booming of the economy随着经济的繁荣

6. with the remarkable improvement of people's living standard随着人民生活水平的显著提高 

7. advanced science and technology 先进的科学技术

8. add much spice / flavor to our daily life为我们的日常生活增添了情趣

9. It is commonly believed that …人们普遍认为  

10. I give my vote to the former / latter opinion.我同意前者(后者)的观点

11. exchange ideas/emotions/information交流思想/情感/信息

12. Undoubtedly/There is no doubt that毫无疑问 

13. relieve stress/burden解压减负

14. financial burden经济负担

15. widen one's horizen/broaden one's vision开阔眼界

16. It is undeniable that./There is no denying that. 不可否认

17. take effective measures to do sth./something effective must be done to. 采取措施

18. make full use of/take advantage of充分利用

19. do good to/be beneficial to大有裨益

20. lead to/give rise to/contribute to导致、引起

21. do harm to/be harmful to对…..有害

22. make contributions to society奉献社会

经典句型

1. Good listening can really enable us to get closer to each other.

善于倾听使我们彼此走得更近。

2. A good relationship between teachers and students is of great importance for our studies.

良好的师生关系对我们的学习很重要。

3. To build a good relationship, we should trust in each other. 要建立良好的关系，我们应该彼此信任。 

4. Only in this way can we enjoy an equal relationship. 只有这样我们才能享有平等的关系。

5. They find it easy to communicate with their teachers.

他们发觉很容易和老师沟通。

6. With their help, I tried my best to study hard and succeeded in entering a key university.

在他们的帮助下，我努力学习，成功地被一所重点大学录取。

7. We should value this harmonious relationship between teachers and students.

我们应该珍惜师生之间这种和谐的关系。

8. With the encouragement and support of my father, I have overcome many difficulties in our life.

在父亲的鼓励和支持下，我克服了生活中的许多困难。

9. There’ll be a football game in our school this week.本周我们学校有一场足球比赛。

10. Think twice before you do. 三思而后行。

11. Great hopes make great man.伟大的抱负造就伟大的人。

12. Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. 抱最好的愿望，做最坏的打算。

13. Nowadays, many students always go into raptures at the mere mention of the coming life of high school or college they will begin. 当前，一提到即将开始的学校生活，许多学生都会兴高采烈。

14. We should spare no effort to beautify our environment.我们应该不遗余力地美化我们的环境。

15. The majority of students believe that part-time job will provide them with more opportunities to develop their interpersonal skills, which may put them in a favorable position in the future job markets.大部分学生相信业余工作会使他们有更多机会发展人际交往能力，而这对他们未来找工作是非常有好处的。

16. It is commonly thought that our society had dramatically changed by modern science and technology, and human had made extraordinary progress in knowledge and technology over the recent decades.

人们普遍认为现代科技使我们的社会发生了巨大的变化，近几十年人类在科技方面取得了惊人的进步。

17. Unfortunately, for most young people, it is not pleasant experience on their first day on campus.然而，对多数年轻人来说，校园刚开始的日子并不是什么愉快的经历。

范文背诵

1.你校正在组织英语演讲比赛。请以“The Power of Teamwork”为主题写一篇演讲稿，内容包括：

1.团队合作的重要意义；

2.如何有效合作。

注意.1词数100左右；

2.演讲稿开头和结尾已给出，不计入总词数。

Good morning, everyone,

The topic of my speech is “The Power of Teamwork".

_____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Thank you!

【参考范文】

Good morning, everyone,

The topic of my speech is “The Power of Teamwork". No matter what the age, being able to work together with another person or in a group will have benefits in relationships, school, and work. Teamwork can save us a lot of time and energy. Additionally, we can learn much from our partners by cooperating with them.

How can we cooperate effectively? In my opinion, firstly, we should try to listen to others' opinions. If they make mistakes, try to point them out in a polite way. Besides, never force your ideas on others. Last but not least, appreciate their gifts, efforts, and sacrifices, whether they are big or small.

Thank you!

【写作策略】

本篇书面表达属于应用文，要求考生以“The Power of Teamwork”为主题写一篇演讲稿。

1.词汇积累

有益：have benefits→be good for

合作：cooperate with→work together with

有效地：effectively→availably

此外：besides→moreover

2.句式拓展

合并简单句

原句：Teamwork can save us a lot of time and energy. Additionally, we can learn much from our partners by cooperating with them.

拓展句：Teamwork can save us a lot of time and energy because we can learn much from our partners by cooperating with them.

2.假定你是李华，你与外教David约定于本周六一起游唐山南湖公园，但因故不能赴约。 请给他写一封邮件，内容包括：

1.表示歉意；

2.解释原因；

3.另约时间。

注意：1.词数80左右；

2.开头和结尾己给出，不计入总词数。

Dear David,

______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Yours,

Li Hua

【参考范文】

Dear David,

I’m sorry I can’t go to Tangshan Nanhu Central Park with you this Saturday. My uncle phoned and asked me to pick him up at the airport on Saturday morning. I have tried to find an alternative person to do it, but no other person is available.

Shall we walk in the park on Sunday morning? Please let me know if the time is suitable for you and I am open to suggestions as well.

Yours，

Li Hua

【写作策略】

本篇书面表达属于应用文，要求考生给外教David写一封邮件，告知他因故不能赴本周六一起游唐山南湖公园的约定。

1.词汇积累

打电话：phone→call

合适的：suitable→appropriate

建议：suggestion→advice

要求：ask→require

2.句式拓展

同义句转换

原句：My uncle phoned and asked me to pick him up at the airport on Saturday morning.

拓展句：My uncle phoned to ask me to pick him up at the airport on Saturday morning.

3. 假定你是李华，你的朋友Mary给你送了一个生日礼物，你非常喜欢。请你用英语给她写一封邮件，内容包括：

1. 对礼物的喜爱；

2. 对她的感激。

注意：1. 词数100左右；

2. 可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。

Dear Mary,

___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Yours,

Li Hua

【参考范文】

Dear Mary,

It was a privilege to receive such a beautiful bouquet that you sent me this morning. The gift brightened up my day. I appreciate the fact that you noticed my love for flowers and have sent the loveliest bouquet. I simply love the white and pink lilies along with the carnations.

Thank you again for the gift and I feel honored to be remembered on my birthday with such bright and cheerful shades of flowers. It shows that you value the friendship between us. Thank you for remembering me and making my day so beautiful with these flowers.

Looking forward to seeing you soon!

Yours,

Li Hua

【写作策略】

本篇书面表达属于应用文，要求考生给朋友Mary写一封邮件对她送的生日礼物表示喜爱，对她表示感谢。

1.词汇积累

使某人很开心：brighten up one's day=make one’s day

感谢：appreciate→thank

令人开心的：cheerful→pleasant

珍惜：value→cherish

2.句式拓展

同义句转换

原句：I appreciate the fact that you noticed my love for flowers and have sent the loveliest bouquet.

拓展句：I appreciate it that you noticed my love for flowers and have sent the loveliest bouquet.

4.假如你是李华，你的一位英国好友Jane在中国留学。因为文化背景不同，她与新同学在交往的过程中产生了一些矛盾，这影响了她的学习和生活，使她感到烦恼。请你根据下列提示写一封信来帮助她走出困境。内容包括:

1. 分析原因；

2. 提出建议；

3. 表达祝愿。

注意：1. 词数100左右；

2. 可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。

Dear Jane，

I'm really

________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Yours sincerely ，

Li Hua

Dear Jane，

I'm really sorry to hear that you have some trouble in getting on with your classmates. You know life is never easy especially when you suddenly move to a new place. Conflict and culture shock are common for people living abroad.

I think the main cause of your conflict is culture shock. Since you live in a different country with a different culture， it is natural that your lifestyle should be different. As a famous saying goes， “When in Rome， do as the Romans do. ” So I advise you to learn about Chinese culture in order to mix well with your new classmates.

Things will be better as long as you communicate with your classmates. And I'm sure that you will find that your classmates are all very friendly!

Good luck with your studies!

Yours sincerely，

Li Hua

5.请你根据这句英语名言 “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.”并结合自己的经历写一篇演讲稿，参加学校组织的演讲比赛，谈谈应该如何择友。演讲内容应包括：

(1) 对这句谚语的理解；

(2) 结合自身的交友经历；

(3) 如何择友并给出建议。

注意：（1）词数120词左右（开头已给出，但不计入总词数）；

（2）可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。

As a popular saying goes, “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.”_______________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

参考范文A

As a popular saying goes, “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.” Good friends make our life more enjoyable. However, we should be very careful when choosing friends because they influence our life greatly.

Take me for example. My friends Wang Wei enjoys reading very much, so he always recommends good books to me. Gradually I begin to find pleasure in reading. Now I have formed the habit of reading in my spare time, which benefits me a lot.

Who shall we make friends with? I’d like to choose kind and honest people, because they will offer us help when we are in trouble. Besides, we should make friends with people who share the same interest with us.

Useful expression

1. Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.

生活,部分是靠我们自己创造的,还有一部分是靠我们交往的朋友创造的。

2. recommend sth./sb. to sb. 推荐sth./sb.给sb.

3. Gradually I begin to find pleasure in reading. 渐渐地，我开始在阅读中寻找乐趣。

4. form the habit of doing sth. 养成做sth.的习惯

参考范文B

As a popular saying goes, “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends whom we choose.”  Our relationships with our friends can make us either happy or sad, because friendship is an important part of life. Choosing friends is something we need to take extremely seriously.

I used to be afraid of water, but my friend Tom helped me overcome my fear. He is an excellent swimmer and spent time with me at a local swimming pool teaching me how to swim. It took me a long time to feel confident in water but Tom didn’t lose patience with me.

Therefore, when making new friends, choose someone to whom you know you can turn in time of trouble.

Useful expression

1. Choosing friends is something we need to take extremely seriously.

选择朋友是我们需要非常重视的事情。

2. lose patience with sb.  对sb.失去耐心

3. Therefore, when making new friends, choose someone to whom you know you can turn in time of trouble. 因此，在交新朋友的时候，选择一个你熟悉的，当你可以在困难的时候可以求助于他/她的人。

turn to sb. 求助于sb.

6.How to Get Along with Your Parents (Interpersonal Relationships)

在日常生活中，我们每天都要与人打交道。我们往往忽略了与我们每天都要面对的、最亲近的父母之间的关系。不少同学以“代沟”为借口，拒绝与父母交流沟通。你怎样看待这个现象呢？说说你的看法以及你与父母融洽相处的小秘诀。

写作要求：1.语言流畅，语法正确；2. 词数：120左右。

参考范文

How to Get Along with Your Parents
   Nowadays, many teenagers find it hard to get along with their parents. In daily life, they may quarrel with their parents and even have a negative attitude towards their parents’opinions. So, how can we teenagers get along well with our parents？
     First of all，I think we should spend more time with our parents and communicate with them. Different generations may have different views towards one thing, but we should not use that as an excuse to refuse to talk with our parents. Next, we should trust our parents and turn to them when we are in trouble because they are more experienced and may help us solve our problems quickly. Besides, we must understand our parents better. They have a lot of pressure in their work, but they still have to spend time taking care of us.
     The most important thing for us to remember is that our parents love us deeply, so it should not be so difficult for us to understand and communicate with each other.

Useful expressions

1. In daily life, they may quarrel with their parents and even have a negative attitude towards their parents’opinions.

在日常生活中，他们可能会与父母争吵，甚至对父母的观点持消极态度。

quarrel with sb. 与某人争吵

    2. Next, we should trust our parents and turn to them when we are in trouble because they are more experienced and may help us solve our problems quickly.

    其次，我们应该相信我们的父母并且当我们遇到麻烦的时候，应该求助于他们，因为他们更有经验，可以帮助我们迅速解决问题。

    turn to sb. 求助于某人

7.演讲稿Being a Good Listener ( Interpersonal Relationships)

实现有效的沟通，建立良好的人际关系，不仅要善于言表，更要学会倾听。请你根据下表中所提供的信息，写一篇题为“Being a Good Listener”的英文演讲稿。

注意：1.对所给要点，逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。 2.词数150左右。开头和结尾已写好，不计入总数。3. 演讲稿中不得提及考生所在学校及本人姓名。

Good afternoon, everyone,

The topic of my speech today is “Being a Good Listener”._______________________________
______________________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________________

Thank you for your listening!

参考范文

Good afternoon, everyone,

The topic of my speech today is “Being a Good Listener”.

Good listening can always show respect, promote understanding, and improve interpersonal relationship. Many people suggest that, firstly, parents should listen more to their children, so they will understand them better, and find it easy to narrow the generation gap. What’s more, teachers should listen more to their students, then they can meet their needs better, and place themselves in a good relationship with their students. Besides, students should listen more to their classmates, thus they will help and learn from each other, and a friendship is likely to be formed.

What I want to stress is that each of us should listen more to others. Show your respect and never stop others till they finish their talk. In addition, show you are interested by a supportive silence or a knowing smile. Finally, be open-minded to different opinions even though you don’t like them. In a word, good listening can really enable us to get closer to each other.

Thank you for your listening!

Useful expressions

1. Many people suggest that, firstly, parents should listen more to their children, so they will understand them better, and find it easy to narrow the generation gap.

许多人认为，首先，父母应该多倾听他们的孩子，使他们更好地了解他们，这样一来，他们就会发现很容易缩小代沟。

2. What I want to stress is that each of us should listen more to others.

我想强调的是我们都应该多听听别人的意见。

3. In a word, good listening can really enable us to get closer to each other.

总之，良好的倾听可以使我们得以更接近彼此。

8.How to Deal with Conflicts ( Interpersonal Relationships)

生活中冲突时有发生。假设你班同学苏华和李江打篮球时发生争执，导致关系紧张。请你结合此事，并根据以下提示，用英语写一篇短文，向学校英文报Happy Teens 专栏投稿。

注意：

1.对所有要点逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。

2.词数150词左右。开头已经写好，不计入总词数。

3.作文中不得提及有关考生个人身份的任何信息，如校名、人名等。

参考范文

Conflicts with others are common in everyday life. During the basketball game yesterday afternoon, Su Hua and Li Jiang bumped into each other, trying to catch the ball. Then they started shouting and yelling, and it turned out to be a horrible quarrel.

      To be honest, it was Su’s fault but Li was also to blame—they were not calm enough and both said some really mean things. They cared too much about winning and losing. As a matter of fact, blocking, pushing and bumping are just part of a tough game.

     To avoid such conflicts, we should be kind to one another, which is essential to enjoy a harmonious life. It is also a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such a competitive and stressful society. Instead of blaming each other, we should communicate more and put ourselves in others’ place.

      Don’t be self-centred and try to be considerate. We must learn to handle conflicts calmly and wisely.

Useful expressions

1. Conflicts with others are common in everyday life.

在日常生活中与别人发生冲突是很普遍的。此处的“conflict”为名词。

n. 冲突; 矛盾; 战斗; 相互干扰The two companies came into conflict. 这两家公司起了冲突。

John often comes into conflict with his boss.约翰经常和他的老板发生争执。

Her diary was a record of her inner conflict.她的日记记录了她内心的矛盾。

vi. （两种思想、信仰、说法等）冲突; 抵触; 争斗; 战斗

These results conflict with earlier findings.这些结果与早期的发现相矛盾。

2. bumped into each other 两人发生碰撞

3. said some really mean things说了一些很刻薄的话

4.To avoid such conflicts, we should be kind to one another, which is essential to enjoy a harmonious life. 为了避免这种冲突，我们应该善待彼此，这是享受和谐生活所必需的。

essential to对…必不可少

harmonious协调的; 和谐的，融洽的; 音调优美的; 悦耳的

5. It is also a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such a competitive and stressful society.

原谅和忘记也是一种美德，特别是在这样一个充满竞争和压力的社会里。

6. put ourselves in others’ place 设身处地为别人考虑

9.假定你是李华，暑假在澳大利亚悉尼歌剧院参观时结识了当地青年Jack，参观过程中他为你提供了很多帮助。在你即将回国之际，给他写一封感谢信。内容包括：

1．感谢他的帮助；

2．你的收获与祝福。

注意：1.词数100左右，开头结尾已给出，不计入总词数；

2．可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯。

参考词汇：悉尼歌剧院Sydney Opera House

Dear Jack，

Yours，

Li Hua

【参考范文】

Dear Jack，

I am writing to deliver my heartfelt thanks to you for your timely help during my visit at the Sydney Opera House.I appreciate your guidance and the time you spent accompanying me.

I can still remember that I was at a loss what to do next.Then it was you who offered me valuable advice on how to explore it.With my invitation，you even gladly agreed to accompany me there.In the following hours，we had so much fun.Your point of view gave me a new per－spective and I gained valuable insights，which made me have a better knowledge of the opera house.

Thank you again.If I may be of help to you，please let me know.Wish you all the best.

Yours，

Li Hua

10.假定你是李华，你的英国朋友Lan参加了留学生汉语作文比赛并获得了一等奖.请用英语给她写一封邮件，内容包括：

1.表示祝贺；

2.希望读到她的作品；

3.请她分享获奖感受.

注意：

1.词数100左右；

2.可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯.

【答案】

Dear Lan，

I am glad to hear that you won first prize in the Chinese composition competition for international student.【高分句型一】 Please accept my sincere congratulations.（表示祝贺） It is indeed a remarkable thing for you to have achieved so great a success considering you once had great trouble learning Chinese.Your success again proved that where there is a will，there is a way.How eager I am to read your works， which must be wonderful.【高分句型二】（希望读到她的作品）By the way， could you share your experience of winning the prize with me? I would like to gain some  competition experience.（请她分享获奖感受）

Looking forward to your reply.（期盼回复）

Yours,

Li Hua

【解析】

【分析】

本篇书面表达属于应用文，要求考生写一封邮件，表达对朋友的祝贺并询问相关情况。

【详解】

第一步：审题

体裁：应用文

时态：根据提示，时态应为一般现在时。

结构：总分法

   总分法指把主题句作为总说，把支持句作为分说，并以这种方式安排所写内容。

要求：1.表达祝贺；

      2.希望读到她的作品；

      3.请她分享获奖感受。

第二步:列提纲 （重点词组）

be glad to ; win first prize ;sincere congratulations; remarkable thing ;have great trouble (in) doing; share…with; competition experience; looking forward to.

第三步：连词成句

1. I am glad to hear that you won first prize in the Chinese composition competition.

2. Please accept my sincere congratulations.

3. It is indeed a remarkable thing for you to have achieved so great a success.

4. you once had great trouble learning Chinese.

5. could you share your experience of winning the prize with me？

6. I would like to gain some competition experience.

7. Looking forward to your reply.

根据提示及关键词（组）进行遣词造句，注意主谓一致和时态问题。

第四步：连句成篇（衔接词）

1.表文章结构顺序：First of all, Firstly/First, Secondly/Second… And then, Finally, In the end, At last

2.表并列补充关系：What is more, Besides, Moreover, Furthermore, In addition As well as, not only…but (also), including,

3.表转折对比关系：However, On the contrary, but, Although+clause(从句), In spite of+n/doing,On the one hand…,On the other hand… Some…,while others…,as for, so…that…

4.表因果关系：Because, As, So, Thus, Therefore, As a result

连句成文，注意使用恰当的连词进行句子之间的衔接与过渡，书写一定要规范清晰，

第五步：润色修改

【点睛】

这篇书面表达的关键在于句子内容的准确表述，同时注意谋篇布局的顺序，运用合适的衔接词连接全文，同时选择主从复合句让文章更有文采，例如：1、I am glad to hear that you won first prize in the Chinese composition competition for international student.

分析：句子里，that引导宾语从句 you won first prize in the Chinese composition competition for international student；2、How eager I am to read your works， which must be wonderful.

分析：句子里，How引导感叹句 eager I am to read your works； which引导非限制性定语从句 must be wonderful。另外，文章思路清晰、层次分明，上下句转换自然，为文章增色添彩。